Well people.  For all of you drug dealers, slangers, bangers and track stars I think you need to read why it’s been a drout in your neighborhood pharmecutical occupation. The US Coast Guard got the goods, but the bad guys got away. The U.S. Coast Guard offloaded about 3200 pounds of cocaine seized during a recent patrol in the Caribbean Sea. The goods: 3200 pounds of cocaine, with a reported street value of $100 million. The bad guys dumped this huge load into the sea and fled. Someones responsible for this lost for sure. We’ll proabably here about a homocide in a few days or see it on miami’s First 48 hours!

Is that really a question to ask yourselves ladies, or should you be asking yourself why do you allow men to cheat.

This topic is probably going to open a wound for some of you but this is very necessary to do so.

My opinion behind men cheating is directed to those women whom they cheat with. Why do you continue? To sleep with a man knowing he’s in a relationship, married or just seeing someone else openly, knowing he will never leave you for her, never, never ever.
Now let’s review the top reasons why your man cheats on you.

1. Because of the options given to him. They say a man is only as faithful as his options. The less options he has the more faithful a man is known to be.

2. You and him argue too much about nothing. The last thing a man wants to come home to are nagging woman with too many complaints and no compliments.

3. The allowance he is given. If you allow a man to cheat on you once, twice and maybe even a third time better believe he will cheat the fourth time. Sorry was only said because he was caught.

4. He isn’t happy with you anymore. Men have been known to stay in relationships with a woman because he didn’t want to hurt her feelings knowing women are very emotional creatures. Even though it doesn’t make sense to you it does make sense to him. What she doesn’t know won’t hurt her is a man’s motto. So he cheats to receive what he’s not getting from his partner from another woman.

5. You’ve let yourself go. When he met you, you were dip to the “T”. Nails done, hair did! And every time you knew he was coming you’d run into the bathroom freshen up and make yourself cute for him. Now that you are together you lost your touch of glamour and felt because you feel comfortable around him you can lose the quality cause you feel you have the quantity he needs.

6. Stop making excuses for him. I know you may love him and it’s hard to let him go but if you donot let him go ladies you will not teach him anything. He will continuously cheat on you and the other women that follow suit. You must let him go the second he cheats, tough love is what teaches men. Remove yourself from a harmful situation if you love yourself, of course you do. Their is not simple explanation why he’s cheating.

7. Ego is definitely a factor. A mans ego needs to be stroked on a daily basis, basically every minute of the day. Men lean towards women who stroke thier ego’s.

Now ladies, if you are contemplating if you should go or stay figure out which of these top reasons your man falls into then you do the math.

 

 The teen drug epidemic has increasingly worsened over the past few years. Children as young as 12 years old are experimenting more and more freely and might I add with grave repercussions, literally. And where are they getting these drugs? From the medicine cabinets of their parents. Yes prescription drugs are now the new designer drug. Mixing deadly combinations of opients and heroin based narcotics. Loosing there lives in record numbers. Folks we are loosing a generation of doctors, lawyer and politicians senselessly. Lock up those medicine cabinets and pay more attention to yours kids where abouts and who they’re choosing as BFF’s and confidants.

Ladies…… lets be more careful about the choices in men we make. I think we become so frustrated waiting for Mr. Wonderful that we sometimes function on clouded judgment. For example…… you meet a guy that in no way shape or form has any of the qualities you set forth in our prerequisite. Maybe he doesn’t dress in the manner you are accustomed or you think to ourselves “if he would just cut his hair differently‘. Maybe it’s the way he talks, walks, chews or his choices in friends. But you think “he’s such a nice guy”. We make the fatal mistake of thinking we can turn him into that knight in shining armor we’ve dreamed about. Don’t do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Once you have cleaned dusted and polished him up like a new penny he now notices that he is getting attention from women who previously would not have given him a second look. They are now checking for him like government mail on the first. He has now developed a new attitude and the “nice guy” you started with is now the arrogant dude you long avoided. He is moving on and someone else will enjoy the fruits of your labor. Just one of life’s lessons.

 

We are again faced with yet another drug/alcohol dependency death in the entertainment world. Thirty-one year old Jason Rae, the husband of singer Corinne Bailey Rae, was found dead on Saturday March 22, 2008. Jason Rae was a saxophonist with a funk band, the Haggis Horns. Some of us may not know who he was but we are not unfamiliar with his Grammy nominated spouse. Though authorities are awaiting toxicology tests to determine the cause of death a 32-year-old man was arrested on suspicion of supplying him with drugs but has since been released on bail. This is just another sad case of no one is immune to drug and alcohol addiction. The entertainment world has lost another talented soul that will gain fame and notoriety due to an untimely death. Our prayers go out to his family and all who knew him.

May your Lives be filled with God’s Blessings and your Homes filled with Peace and Love.