The Fixer Upper

Posted on March 25, 2008
Filed Under Sex, Concrete evidence |

Ladies…… lets be more careful about the choices in men we make. I think we become so frustrated waiting for Mr. Wonderful that we sometimes function on clouded judgment. For example…… you meet a guy that in no way shape or form has any of the qualities you set forth in our prerequisite. Maybe he doesn’t dress in the manner you are accustomed or you think to ourselves “if he would just cut his hair differently‘. Maybe it’s the way he talks, walks, chews or his choices in friends. But you think “he’s such a nice guy”. We make the fatal mistake of thinking we can turn him into that knight in shining armor we’ve dreamed about. Don’t do it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Once you have cleaned dusted and polished him up like a new penny he now notices that he is getting attention from women who previously would not have given him a second look. They are now checking for him like government mail on the first. He has now developed a new attitude and the “nice guy” you started with is now the arrogant dude you long avoided. He is moving on and someone else will enjoy the fruits of your labor. Just one of life’s lessons.

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2 Responses to “The Fixer Upper”

LB on March 25th, 2008 5:47 pm

My experience makes me think, anything good would not be running around lose because no woman in her right mind would throw a “good” man to the wild, and I’m sure there are exceptions; there are always 2 sides to every story. In these days and times we must be careful with our choices. That rascal must fill out an application and get googled. By the time you notice that thing that you were blind to, you’re in deep and it hurts. We must be vigilent with our temples/bodies. We only get one. Aids doesn’t care where it lives; trying to change a man by changing his attire is like spraying perfume on a pig. Either he’s got it or he doesn’t. Life is too short to raise another baby. Sometimes that so-called soul-mate ends up as the “Tasmanian devil” with attitude/gaul.
RhondaMB on June 5th, 2008 8:46 am

Your comments are taken into consideration. Some a bit harsh bit if you’ve lived it I guess you can’t help but be harsh.

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