Why do men cheat?

Posted on March 29, 2008
Filed Under Sex |

Is that really a question to ask yourselves ladies, or should you be asking yourself why do you allow men to cheat.

This topic is probably going to open a wound for some of you but this is very necessary to do so.

My opinion behind men cheating is directed to those women whom they cheat with. Why do you continue? To sleep with a man knowing he’s in a relationship, married or just seeing someone else openly, knowing he will never leave you for her, never, never ever.
Now let’s review the top reasons why your man cheats on you.

1. Because of the options given to him. They say a man is only as faithful as his options. The less options he has the more faithful a man is known to be.

2. You and him argue too much about nothing. The last thing a man wants to come home to are nagging woman with too many complaints and no compliments.

3. The allowance he is given. If you allow a man to cheat on you once, twice and maybe even a third time better believe he will cheat the fourth time. Sorry was only said because he was caught.

4. He isn’t happy with you anymore. Men have been known to stay in relationships with a woman because he didn’t want to hurt her feelings knowing women are very emotional creatures. Even though it doesn’t make sense to you it does make sense to him. What she doesn’t know won’t hurt her is a man’s motto. So he cheats to receive what he’s not getting from his partner from another woman.

5. You’ve let yourself go. When he met you, you were dip to the “T”. Nails done, hair did! And every time you knew he was coming you’d run into the bathroom freshen up and make yourself cute for him. Now that you are together you lost your touch of glamour and felt because you feel comfortable around him you can lose the quality cause you feel you have the quantity he needs.

6. Stop making excuses for him. I know you may love him and it’s hard to let him go but if you donot let him go ladies you will not teach him anything. He will continuously cheat on you and the other women that follow suit. You must let him go the second he cheats, tough love is what teaches men. Remove yourself from a harmful situation if you love yourself, of course you do. Their is not simple explanation why he’s cheating.

7. Ego is definitely a factor. A mans ego needs to be stroked on a daily basis, basically every minute of the day. Men lean towards women who stroke thier ego’s.

Now ladies, if you are contemplating if you should go or stay figure out which of these top reasons your man falls into then you do the math.